How To Have Fun As A Team
Thu, 14 May 2009 - 10:14 AM CST
How To Have Fun As A Team
This months topic is more light hearted and all together a
bit more fun! Hopefully you are already
spending quality time with your team(s) outside of actual quizzing. There should be time set aside for you and
your team to bond with each other and have fun together with no scripture portion,
quiz boxes, etc. allowed. This can be
as often as after every practice, once a month, or just before or after a
league match. These should be times
when you just have fun together. It doesn’t
matter if everyone spends a lot of money or if the time is free. When you and your team spend time together,
be it you and a quizzer one on one, or as a whole team, the respect level goes
up amongst everyone. Your team will
want to do better for you and for themselves. Hopefully the ideas given in this months Coaching Tips will inspire you
to do more with your team and get to know them better starting now. You can use the ideas given here or use them
to spark your own creative fun! In the
end it doesn’t matter what you end up doing to have fun together as long as you
are taking this time to get to know your kids and disciple them. Letting them
know that quizzing is important but that you care about them outside of how
well they do at the buzzer will stay with them much longer than any trophy they
might achieve. So, on to the fun:
- Know what your quizzers enjoy doing
besides Bible Quizzing! Every
quizzer enjoys something else that is not Bible Quiz. You might have a team full of jocks, or
you could have matheletes! You
could be the lucky coach of metal heads!! Whatever your quizzers enjoy doing and excel at beyond quizzing is
one of the best ways to show you care. If you have a quizzer who enjoys reading, take them to the local
book fair, or perhaps borrow one of their favorite books so you have
something new to discuss with them. Have your whole team get out and cheer on the hockey player or
tennis player at their next game. Bring flowers to the actress of the group when she plays the role of
“tree” in the next school play. Most events that your quizzers enjoy are
going to be free or cheap to attend and will go along way to make their
day and even affect their quizzing positively
- Take advantage of after practice while
the whole team is still assembled: You already have everyone together in one place, so why not
extend the time to do something fun together. Most churches have a gym with a basketball hoop, you could
all go in for a round of “PIG”. Do
you have enough cars at your practice to have everyone pile in and go to
Chick-Fil-A for lunch together? Maybe your team is hooked on the board game Risk, have someone
bring theirs and show them how to win wars by winning the game (this could
take hours and hours and hours). Again, it doesn’t matter what you end up doing together or how much
it cost, it matters that everyone is having a good time and getting the
chance to bond, minus chapter analysis.
- Have a “CARB NIGHT”: I grew up in a family where everyone played many different
sports. Tradition held, that the
night before a swim meet or soccer game, a team members’ family held a
“Carb Night”. The entire team
would pile into someone’s kitchen to stuff themselves with spaghetti or
lasagna or some other high carb meal. The objective being that not only was this good fuel necessary for
lots of energy to burn while running, swimming, etc. but the team was
given time to bond, ensuring that you would want to do your best to help
the whole team the next day. Would I recommend carbs the night before a long day behind the
buzzer? Probably not, but you can
take this idea and make it Bible Quiz appropriate. Perhaps host a bonfire and weenie roast
at one of your quizzers’ homes (or yours). Have a night of board games or Xbox. Try to have each quizzer’s family
volunteer to host one of these nights just before each league match. This guarantees that your team multiple
opportunities to bond throughout the year.
- Invite them into your world: Have your team over to your house for Sunday lunch once a
month. Nothing says family and
friendship like lunch after church. Are you fortunate to have a pool, hot tub, lake, trampoline, etc.
at your house? Share the wealth with your team. Rent an appropriate movie one night and have everyone over
to watch with you. You know your
home better than I do, but decide what will work and have them over
already!!
- The Old Standbys: Of course you can always rely on some
classic get-togethers. If you live
in the north go sledding, ice skating, skiing/snowboarding, have a snowman
building contest. Live where the
weather is always a perfect 75 degrees? Visit the beach, have a pool party, build sandcastles, enjoy a
picnic and a game of flag football. Bowling seems to be a favorite of our team, this can end up costing
some money but at some point you are going to have to open your wallet, so
choose wisely. Indoor rock
climbing is a popular event and fun to do as a team. Do you have a National Park or other
tourist attraction near your home town? Why not visit it as a team? You could go horse back riding, or for more risk go four wheeling,
snowmobiling or jet skiing.
- Try a teambuilding experience: Most YMCA’s and camp grounds offer a
“team building experience”. This
is sometimes a hike up a mountain to zip cord across a canyon, and other
times it is an obstacle course for your team to challenge one another
with. There is usually a charge,
however it can be a lot of fun and build a great bond with everyone
working together.
- Get to know their friends: Some kids may not like this one, so
you will need to feel out your own quizzers, but for me it has always been
very successful. You can learn a
lot about how your quizzer ticks by getting to know their friends and how
they interact together. One of my
favorite ways to do this is to visit them at their school. Most schools will allow a visitor at
lunch with a note of permission. If you don’t want to go into their school, you can always take them
and their best friend to Burger King. Of course, get permission from all parents and school first!! Another way is to allow them to host
their birthday party or a sleepover at your house. Parents love this one too because you
get all the mess!
Hopefully as you have read this,
something jumped out to you that is achievable with your team and
quizzers. Don’t worry about making sure
everyone “loves” what you are doing. The metal head of your group may not think he enjoys a hockey game, but
in the end he will have had a great time. Two other quick things to hit on, feel free to invite potential quizzers
to hang out with your team, if they see you having fun together they will note
that Bible Quiz isn’t just hard work. Also, you could invite alumni quizzers back if they are around. We all know that an extra experienced hand
at practice and matches is always very welcome! Enjoy the time with your team and feel free to pass on any great
ideas for bonding your team may have!
Kate Martin is a coach
from Crossway Church in Valencia, PA. If you have any questions or have any activities you would like to see
added to this list, please feel free to contact her at k30472@yahoo.com.